I've been seeing a man for a few months. Going really well. Today I facebook stalked his ex and discovered she is very young (I am the same age as him) and attractive. They were married 10 years and have 2 children but divorced 3 years ago. For some reason it's made me feel insecure. Of course I know people who meet in their mid 40's have a past, I certainly do. It's just made me feel weird to see photos of them together as a happy family. I should never have stalked them! Please tell me I'm not the only weirdo stalker around?!