Hi all
so I’m early 50s and my partner of 8 months is in his 50s too. We have both has previous unsuccessful and painful relationships and we have met each other hoping to really meet our match .. however I fancy him he fancies me and we have said the L word .. and it feels natural but we are both so scared .. you can feel us getting tense, not laughing as much as we were before - will time make us both get over historical trauma?