14 year old daughter- past year nightmare to live with…
rude, aggressive, mean to siblings, swears, lazy, disrespectful, only interested if talking about herself- body shames others…. Everything I’ve tried hard to guide her not to be.
her older sister was nothing like this- her teenage years were a bliss - so this has got us hard. Is this just normal teenage behaviour? How do h deal with it?
have tried soft approach- understanding, guiding, listening- have also tried angry- remove your phone/ grounded at weekend etc.
I understand she’s going through big changes in her body but feeni need to do more to protect her siblings who r often at the other end of her rage.
she’s in the popular group at sch- but the friendship group seems completely toxic- they all seem to treat each other appallingly. Very small school and no way of changing groups.
she’s just so angry and never reflective.
any ideas as to how to get through it?