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He is being secretive

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Carpets7 · 31/05/2023 18:35

I went away the weekend with some friends. On Saturday my boyfriend was seeing his daughters. He asked how my day had been etc so I told him what I had been up to. I asked him multiple times if he had a nice time with his daughters and he didn't answer then I asked why he had been cagey and then he finally said what they had been up to.

He also went out with some friends on Sunday. He let slip yesterday he went out with some other friends (who he plays computer games with) after to watch Formula 1 - I don't know why he didn't mention this. I'm starting to get annoyed now because he wants to know my business but thinks it is ok to be secretive which makes me hard to trust him.

He wants me to meet these computer games friends (they are in their 30s, 40w and 50s) he watched formula 1 with this Sunday. He said they are quite geeky and like the banter. I am not keen on meeting them because they have been a distraction to him which he plays computer games for a few hours a night, one time it was 4 hours and he has been neglecting his health and himself. That is not me saying I want him to spend more time on me but it's me who has to hear about the health issues he does nothing to resolve.

The main thing is the secretiveness is bugging me. He has autism so I don't know if that is anything to do with it.

OP posts:
Frogger8395 · 31/05/2023 20:06

Witholding information is just childish. I couldn’t be bothered. He doesn’t sound very nice.

Oopsiedaisyy · 31/05/2023 20:06

Oh bloody hell, leave the poor guy to his hobbies and friends. He needs to find someone who is into the same things he is

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