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talking to a guy

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user1310910 · 31/05/2023 09:14

So I’m talking to the hottest guy.. we have been texting for couple of days now. I can see that he is interested bcs he never sends me a dry respond and conversation is always continuing which is great. But he doesnt flirt with me, what does that mean? But i really appreciate that he shares his life with me for example: He was in hospital and have to take important medicine now, he even explained why.. then everyday he has very important exam and everytime he gets done he texts me wheter he passed or not. Those little things that he shares with me throughout the day are very cute. What does that all mean?

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CombatBarbie · 31/05/2023 09:32

How did yous meet, OLD? He may be a rare breed that's waiting for you to turn the conversation.

Or..... If not OLD, there could be crossed wires?

JoanThursday1972 · 31/05/2023 09:38

@user1310910 You talk about "every day" and "he shares with me throughout the day" and "everytime" IT'S BEEN TWO DAYS! This is not long enough to talk about a pattern or think that he shares his life with you. You are way overthinking it. Arrange to meet him and see what you think in real life or you will be hearing wedding bells by Friday.

Neverinamonthofsundays · 31/05/2023 09:42

He has exams every day? Is he doing his GCSE's?

arethereanyleftatall · 31/05/2023 09:43

After two days, this all means absolutely nothing.

solice84 · 31/05/2023 10:34

Neverinamonthofsundays · 31/05/2023 09:42

He has exams every day? Is he doing his GCSE's?

Clearly 😂😂😂

SkunkAndNanci · 31/05/2023 11:52

Could be SATS?

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user1310910 · 31/05/2023 12:34

he’s graduating. System in our country is a bit different

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PousseyNotMoira · 31/05/2023 12:36

What do you consider flirting?

Pinkbonbon · 31/05/2023 13:00

I'd probably not flirt much with someone I'd never met either. Would be hella awkward if I had been and then we met and I didn't fancy them.

Also wouldnt give my number out

Pinkbonbon · 31/05/2023 13:03

Posted too soon

*wouldn't give my number out until we were due to meet. I(deally I've found, even until after we meet if possible as most ppl have intrernet and can use the site to message. And I've regretted giving my number out before so now I try hold off)

Also sod being glued to my phone hearing hearing the life story of a stranger for days lol.

Don't read anything into it until you meet him. And meet him soon to see if you like him.

hugefanofcheese · 31/05/2023 13:04

How did you meet? If you've only just met, in whatever way then cool your bloody beans! Questioning what it all means after 2 days, not even to mention when he's got exams and been in hospital. Meet in person ASAP for a date and take it from there.

mondaytosunday · 31/05/2023 13:21

Sharing little things about your day is flirting. What are you expecting him to say? Something sexual? If he did this quick it would be a red flag.

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