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Every guy gives me the ick

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morethanspice · 30/05/2023 22:28

I’m in a FWB situation and have caught feelings so looking for someone who wants a real relationship. But even a simple message exchange is making me recoil from dating again. Just had a pleasant chat with someone and then said I was going to bed, he sent his number and pretty much demanded I send him a text (moving off the chat platform) then sent an another message saying he’d not received anything!! Another corrected the term I used to refer to my grandchild. Apparently I shouldn’t say baby, but granddaughter or grandson! To a stranger!! And another one asked me if riding my horse aroused me! I’m actually a pretty adventurous lover in the right circumstances but geez I hate sleaze in v early chats
im surprised at my reactions as I used to be such a people pleaser

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TheoTheopolis23 · 30/05/2023 23:23

Old is a trash sifting exercise.

Maybe try walking group, conservation volunteers, meet up etc.b

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Screamingabdabz · 06/09/2023 20:13

Some men are actual slime.

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