Getting back on the saddle?

[mondograss]

Can anyone give me advice on rekindling my my sex life? DH & I haven't been intimate for 5mths. How do we get back on track? Our relationship took a dive, then last time I fell pregnant despite being menopausal and then had an early miscarriage which was actually a relief given all the circumstances (and my age!). We've just not resumed a sex life since. I'd do it once a day if I could and planned on keeping going into old age. I think DH is the same, we've just stopped initiating it. We're getting on better but don't have much time together and nothing is happening. Anyone else get things back on track after a lull?

[DivorcedAndDelighted]

This is a good place to start - If You Massage Your Wife More, She May Want A Lot More Sex by clinical psychologist & sex therapist Dr
Samantha Rodman Whiten

She has a more recent podcast on a similar theme which is a good listen:
Massage: Women = Sex: Men

Good luck.

[mondograss]

Thank you, I'll start there!