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Worried about my husband

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Mumma2Ro · 25/05/2023 06:05

Hey! So the last few weeks my husband hasn’t been himself…..
He seems off with me. Hasn’t been affectionate, he hasn’t been kissing me hello/good bye, hasn’t been saying love you. We’ve had sex twice in 3 weeks which is very unusual for us. He usually always wants sex but not lately!
things just feel awkward between us and I don’t know why…..
most nights we usually sit down and watch tv together. But lately he has been in his office working late or colouring in.
I feel like he is avoiding spending time with me.
Ive asked him what’s going on and if he is okay etc. he says he doesn’t feel himself atm, he isn’t sure why and he can’t put his finger on it.
says he doesn’t feel depressed, just a bit ‘off’ and like he is in auto pilot- what does that even mean!?
i’ve told him I am here for him, when he needs to chat and told him I’m here to help in anyway I can.
But I am concerned!! Any advice welcome 😔

OP posts:
user1471886287 · 20/10/2023 12:16

My husband is exactly the same as this. I'm so lonely and I miss cuddles. He is so cold and withdrawn. I dont know what to do, he said he doesnt know if he wants me, our life and our kids (doesnt know what he wants). Its horrendous as he just wont talk and gets annoyed if I bring it up. I'm so sad, we have been together 17 years. I'm sure there is no OW. Is it depression, is it MIC? or does he not want me anymore (this is the stinger as I think he is bored with me and just doesnt want me).

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