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Just got sent an unsolicited dick pic

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gottobenz · 14/05/2023 20:44

And I actually find it abusive .
He knew I did t want one .
He was alluding to it.
Told him that that wasnt for me .
Inbox ..minutes later.
I am just sick of these sub standard men.
Is this bloody normal in online dating ?
Why in earth would any man think a random female find these photos anything less than vile and repulsive .

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C1N1C · 14/08/2023 15:39

WoMandalorian · 14/05/2023 21:57

Sorry this happened to you. There's some good comebacks online if you're interested. Here's two of my favourites 😅

Lol that's awesome :)

LightSpeeds · 14/08/2023 15:44

anyolddinosaur · 14/08/2023 06:58

This bill will make it a specific offence

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/a-guide-to-the-online-safety-bill

until that receives royal assent it's the Malicious Communication Act 1088. Clearly a crime when OP had said she didnt want one and it was sent anyway.

Report to the police.

Where, in this information, does it say it will be a specific offence?

anyolddinosaur · 15/08/2023 19:43

https://metro.co.uk/2022/03/13/people-who-send-unwanted-dick-pics-to-face-up-to-two-years-in-jail-16266953/

People who send unwanted 'dick pics' to face up to two years in jail

Cyberflashing - defined as sending an unsolicited sexual image - will become a criminal offence.

https://metro.co.uk/2022/03/13/people-who-send-unwanted-dick-pics-to-face-up-to-two-years-in-jail-16266953

Triuqs69 · 14/11/2023 16:23

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NutellaNut · 15/11/2023 06:26

Many years ago my aunt was flashed at in her own remote house in the country by a bin man. Her cool response was ‘I wouldn’t brag about that if I were you.’ Seems like a perfect response to a dick pic. Must have been absolutely terrifying under the circumstances though. Don’t know whether she reported it (probably) or what happened other than he scuttled off ‘with his tail between his legs’ apparently.

Tilllly · 15/11/2023 07:13

Zombie thread

Epidote · 15/11/2023 07:39

I love the response of the internet lady who send one pic back saying mine is bigger. That is a total turn around.

Can you report it? If do do it. Some people is disgusting.

NutellaNut · 15/11/2023 07:44

Annoying…why do posters randomly revive Zombie threads? Need to remember to check the date of actual posts that appear on my feed.

billyt · 15/11/2023 11:02

Actually not that much of a zombie compared to some on here. At least it's the same year

I've never sent anyone a dick pic, wouldn't ever cross my mind.

But I was flicking TV channels last night, saw Live at the Apollo was on and as I wanted something light to watch, thought I'd give that a go. Ria Lina was on and all she was talking about were dick pics. Every.single.line was dick pic this, dick pic that.

Wasn't slightest bit funny.

TheAverageJoanne · 15/11/2023 11:25

My friend was talking to a guy online and he sent a video of himself wanking.

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