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determinedtomakethiswork · 14/05/2023 22:08

AbsolutePixels · 14/05/2023 22:06

I would like to see men prosecuted for this sort of behaviour.

Me too. It's threatening and it's disgusting.

Tilllly · 14/05/2023 22:12

Shadowworry · 14/05/2023 20:53

let the app know and delete him - if you know where he is inform the police on 101

This

Tilllly · 14/05/2023 22:13

knobheadex · 14/05/2023 21:49

Gross. I've had a couple and just asked them why they'd sent me a picture of a child's penis. They went off. Then I blocked them.

😂😂😂

StrawberryFizz27 · 14/05/2023 22:14

knobheadex · 14/05/2023 21:49

Gross. I've had a couple and just asked them why they'd sent me a picture of a child's penis. They went off. Then I blocked them.

Great response.

Flowertight · 14/05/2023 22:16

I thought it was illegal now

Noshowlomo · 14/05/2023 22:18

Absolutely gross. Fucking rank!
report the fucker.

Honeyroar · 14/05/2023 22:20

I like the “on reporting you for sending me child porn” response.

QueefQueen80s · 14/05/2023 22:21

I don't get it at all. They would love rude pics from women so assume we'd be salivating over theirs.

doodlejump1980 · 14/05/2023 22:29

Reply “one, two, three, four I declare a thumb war?”

DrBlackbird · 14/05/2023 22:38

WoMandalorian · 14/05/2023 21:57

Sorry this happened to you. There's some good comebacks online if you're interested. Here's two of my favourites 😅

These are genius and I’m sharing them with friends.

billybear · 14/05/2023 22:47

i was selling something on a local facebook group, i got sent a private message with a dick picture saying did i like it,i could not believe it, i replied not very big is it,

PiedPipa · 14/05/2023 22:58

I'm so sorry this happened to you OP. It happened to me last summer, a man I worked with, but I stupidly let it go because he'd create this facade that he was socially awkward.

But turns out he was a serial offender- with a live-in fiancée. I wish I'd called him out and shattered his ego.

I just don't understand why they do it💐

JeanMarie · 14/05/2023 23:01

Whenever I was OLD and got a dick pic i'd reply with " That looks like a penis, only smaller" then delete and block. Gross old munters! 😡

ThimbleThimble · 14/05/2023 23:23

If you know where he works threaten to report it to his employer.

guineacup · 14/05/2023 23:34

gottobenz · 14/05/2023 20:44

And I actually find it abusive .
He knew I did t want one .
He was alluding to it.
Told him that that wasnt for me .
Inbox ..minutes later.
I am just sick of these sub standard men.
Is this bloody normal in online dating ?
Why in earth would any man think a random female find these photos anything less than vile and repulsive .

He knows you'll find it repulsive - that's why he does it. 30 years ago he'd have been the flasher in the park.

PiedPipa · 15/05/2023 10:05

ThimbleThimble · 14/05/2023 23:23

If you know where he works threaten to report it to his employer.

When my employer found out about the 'man' who did this to me (and at least 3 others), they did nothing.
Said they'd investigate, but instead told us it was a 'grey area' and quietly ushered the dirty bastard in to new job in another government department- on promotion.

And that was the Civil Service, 2022.

So many of these dirtbags walk among us, but there are so many enablers that allow them to continue.

CaroleSinger · 15/05/2023 10:27

I trust you replied along the lines of 'that's tine. What is it??

CaroleSinger · 15/05/2023 10:27

Tiny

Lampan · 15/05/2023 11:15

I like the idea of responding “what am I looking at here?”
but obviously this is trivialising the matter. I agree it’s disgusting but they’re getting off on your shock so it’s probably best not to respond, and then to report to the site/app if possible.

Greycloudlooming · 15/05/2023 12:25

I used to get sent loads on LinkedIn of all places. I used to just reply ‘ awwwww, cute micro penis’ or I’d send a picture I found on the internet of a hot dog all sliced up. Or respond with “disappointing”. I didn’t want to just ignore because I wanted them to see the error of their ways. Naive! Then I would block.

Then I went rogue and started replying “I’m wet”, which they’d always reply stuff like mmmm tell me more. So I’d say I’m wet from vomiting on myself. Now I’ve deleted LinkedIn because I can’t be dealing with that. I honestly think the ones I responded that too believed I’d seen their picture and got overcome with lust and was salivating!

Strange men. It’s definitely a power thing. It’s also definitely disgusting.

QueefQueen80s · 15/05/2023 19:04

Greycloudlooming · 15/05/2023 12:25

I used to get sent loads on LinkedIn of all places. I used to just reply ‘ awwwww, cute micro penis’ or I’d send a picture I found on the internet of a hot dog all sliced up. Or respond with “disappointing”. I didn’t want to just ignore because I wanted them to see the error of their ways. Naive! Then I would block.

Then I went rogue and started replying “I’m wet”, which they’d always reply stuff like mmmm tell me more. So I’d say I’m wet from vomiting on myself. Now I’ve deleted LinkedIn because I can’t be dealing with that. I honestly think the ones I responded that too believed I’d seen their picture and got overcome with lust and was salivating!

Strange men. It’s definitely a power thing. It’s also definitely disgusting.

On linkedin.. fucking hell.

Shadowworry · 15/05/2023 21:04

PiedPipa · 15/05/2023 10:05

When my employer found out about the 'man' who did this to me (and at least 3 others), they did nothing.
Said they'd investigate, but instead told us it was a 'grey area' and quietly ushered the dirty bastard in to new job in another government department- on promotion.

And that was the Civil Service, 2022.

So many of these dirtbags walk among us, but there are so many enablers that allow them to continue.

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Don’t threaten do and also inform the police - he is representing his company on LinkedIn

Sheepsheepeverywhere · 15/05/2023 21:08

Just send a laughing emoji.. A family friend many years ago told me she was flashed at on a field walking across the hospital grounds of her workplace home. She asked him if that's all he had and he ran off.

UWhatNow · 15/05/2023 21:23

The problem with ‘bantery’ responses is that they think, at the very worst we find it amusing. When actually it’s shocking and upsetting.

They have pea-sized reptilian brains with low empathy compared to massive horny egos. They believe porn and think women are gagging for sex and will hook up with them the second we see a badly lit image of some gross hairy grey sausage.

Women need to respond seriously and aggressively. Report, complain to the police and block. This is tantamount to sexual harassment. It’s distressing and horrid and should dealt with seriously in law. Unfortunately we are only silly women and seemingly our feelings and views are of no worth in this society these days. If ever.

guineacup · 17/05/2023 07:00

They have pea-sized reptilian brains with low empathy compared to massive horny egos. They believe porn and think women are gagging for sex and will hook up with them the second we see a badly lit image of some gross hairy grey sausage.

I disagree. These men know women won't want to hook up with them after seeing their dick.... in the same way a park flasher knows that women won't be rushing to jump him when he opens his mac.

These are men who feel aggrieved at women for not giving them the easy sex they think they deserve, and have given up on being a man that women will find sexually attractive, so they share dick pics as an outlet for their deep resentment, as a way of "getting even" and redressing what they see as a massive sexual power imbalance.