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DP just coughed in my face

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dizzydizzydizzy · 06/05/2023 23:54

In bed. He couldn't see a problem with coughing in my face. He then refused to face the other way angrily saying "I'll turn over when I want to." I told him he was being inconsiderate and then played some music out loud. When he turned over I put my headphones on. He is abusive. I will leave. For various reasons not able to at the moment. Anyone else get this kind of behaviour? He is a highly educated man and none of his friends or work colleagues would believe he is like this at home.

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billy1966 · 06/05/2023 23:57

He is an ignorant pig.

They never change.

The choice is yours.

Only one life.

Remember that.

NewNameNigel · 07/05/2023 05:53

This whole thing sounds so toxic.
Please leave, you only have one life. Why spend it locked into stupid games of tit for tat!

Aposterhasnoname · 07/05/2023 06:03

Ok, so he does sound an abusive twat, but it does beg the question why didn’t you just turn over? Also, played loud music in bed? Hope you don’t have neighbours attached.

dizzydizzydizzy · 07/05/2023 08:32

I could have just turned over, true. It's just that I think coughing on me is incredibly inconsiderate (droplets landed on my face) and iI asked him nicely to face the other way and he hit the roof.

The music was playing from my phone so not loud enough to disturb others.

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user1471517095 · 07/05/2023 09:01

To be honest, you both sound like you're winding each other up. You could have turned over.

CherryCokeFanatic · 07/05/2023 09:03

You both sound like a PITA. Either continue to snipe and depise each other for ever. Or end it.

dizzydizzydizzy · 07/05/2023 09:27

I am going to leave. I can't leave at the moment.

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