I've been doing OLD since January.
I've had many matches, messages and dates over this time, including one that turned into brief relationship...
Over that time, despite the 100s of messages and 15 or so dates, there have been no phone calls, none. That's fine by me as I prefer to message and meet, and have never suggested a phone call, but I'm surprised that it hasn't featured at all.
It seems that without exception, everyone else has been a "message, meet but no calls" person too!
Is this a fluke? Or is it just how things are these days? I remember calling much more in the past when I dated in my 20s, even though texting was around then (I'm not that old!)