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Was I being a nag/ unreasonable??...

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Chickensoupforyoursoul · 25/04/2023 17:49

In asking oh twice to walk the dogs?
He says I was and he'll not jump just as soon as I click my fingers.

We had both been in work, I finished earlier collected kids, fed them & dogs, let dogs out. Then I had to go to bed as I had really bad pregnancy sickness. When oh arrived home, I asked him if he'd walk dogs as I wasn't up to it. He said in a bit.
About 8pm now and the dogs were staring at me & trying to tell me they wanted to go out as they usually do. So I came and asked Jim again if he would walk them. That's the response I got. So was I being unreasonable keep asking.
I usually do the pet care as I only work part time.

OP posts:
Wishona · 25/04/2023 18:18

I don’t think you were being unreasonable. What was he doing?

Chickensoupforyoursoul · 25/04/2023 18:32

Nothing just on couch. @Wishona

OP posts:
Wishona · 25/04/2023 18:36

No then. Have you chatted about it today? He was probably tired and grumpy and can hopefully see that now?

I might consider a dog walker if it makes things easier. Might be handy as a fall back with a new baby too.

rookiemere · 25/04/2023 19:56

Was getting the dogs a joint decision?

Chickensoupforyoursoul · 25/04/2023 20:24

Yes @rookiemere

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HowRatherGolly · 25/04/2023 21:23

No I think we should be able to ask our OH for assistance if we feel under the weather, specially pregnancy nausea, that is horrid to go though.

Did you ask him using a tone? you know, that tone we seem to get when we have been a while in a relationship a while?

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