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DH leaving the house without telling us

8 replies

Felixss · 23/04/2023 10:52

Getting really annoyed with dh and his hobbies. It's seems to have ramped up motorcycle rides in the morning , table tennis and the gym. He just leaves the house no texts or tell us where he is going. DD is 10 so not a baby I'm getting irritated with it she's not an adult yet. She's had a serious allergic reaction daya ago so needs more close monitoring. feel like I can't make any plans or do anything myself as dh might want to come or he's already gone so I can't go the gym or go out myself. He wasn't so bad when she was younger. He says things like I'm not being a house prisoner.

No affair it's all hobbies he's behaving like he has dc who have left home.

OP posts:
crazeecatlady · 23/04/2023 10:58

You got married to be together and have a family. Only, now he doesn't. he clearly doesn't want to be together hence the hobbies and he doesn't seem to be taking any responsibility for his child. What's in this for you? Seriously....

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 23/04/2023 10:59

Go out before him….

MrsSkylerWhite · 23/04/2023 11:00

What does he say when you tell him you don’t appreciate it?

OliveToboogie · 23/04/2023 13:14

He has checked out of parenting. Either shapes up or ships out. Selfish behaviour.

Crikeyisthatthetime · 23/04/2023 13:20

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 23/04/2023 10:59

Go out before him….

This ^^

CaroleSinger · 23/04/2023 13:23

You need to go out before him and say things like I'm not being a house prisoner. Let him look after his child.

Mortenharkettsgirl · 23/04/2023 13:23

I would agree to go out before him but can you guarantee he won't call your bluff and head out anyway? I understand how infuriating this behaviour is. You have my sympathy.

Strugglingtodomybest · 23/04/2023 13:25

I wouldn't mind the hobbies, I have loads myself, but the going out without telling you is quite bizzare imo.

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