Abuse?

[MermaidDreams83]

Tonight my husband kicked. Few things left out in sitting room. Saying place was a tip etc (like I don't work full time like him)

So then I went into his room and started taking things off shelves mainly
Lego.

He grabbed both my arms and twisted them till I was on my knees in pain.

Is this abuse? Or just getting carried away?

It’s abuse. You know this.

It’s abuse. Is there anywhere safe you can go for the night?

Yes, he has escalated to physical abuse .

my penny dropped moment was seeing someone say ‘if you have to ask, it is abuse…’

are you ok now OP?

have you got anywhere else to go?

Of course this is abuse. Please contact women’s aid for help and advice

Are you okay OP? Where is he now in relation to you? How did it end?

As pp have all said it’s abuse.
Bruising may well come out in your arms today so make sure it’s photographed. Start thinking about whether you ant to stay with someone who’ll physically hurt you over a but if untidiness that he thought he was above sorting.

Yes it is.

You have been assaulted.

Please report this to the police.

Call Womens aid for advice and support.