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missmorga · 04/04/2023 20:26

I've been married for 31 years, I've always paid for all utilities, insurances, half mortgage and 80%of food.
My husband earns good money and says he's saving for our future.
Recently he took a sudden trip to Caribbean then on to the UK to see family. He buys high range devices for himself, best iPhone watch, top range clothing.
I have a injury which has lead me to not working and receiving acc, not earning a lot but scrape through paying everything as usual leaving myself with nothing.
I asked my husband for money for food and house supplies but he refuses then moans when he needs something.
Feel like a mug, have been used.
What advise would you give.

OP posts:
LiliLil · 04/04/2023 20:39

Divorce him and take half.

Watchkeys · 04/04/2023 20:43

LiliLil · 04/04/2023 20:39

Divorce him and take half.

Yup. Or if he's got nothing, you'll find out now. Best off divorcing, either way. I hope he has been saving, for your sake.

Rachaelrachael · 04/04/2023 20:43

Leave him

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