I'm in my late thirties and met a guy in his late twenties who wants to date me. In our case, it's a good a time 10 year gap between us. Any advice on the pros and cons of relationships with an age gap will be appreciated.
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TrishM80 · 01/04/2023 06:58
No. An older woman/younger man couple always looks ridiculous.
TrishM80 · 01/04/2023 06:58
No. An older woman/younger man couple always looks ridiculous.
Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 01/04/2023 07:24
What about an older man / younger woman? Or is it just against women dating younger?
TrishM80 · 01/04/2023 06:58
No. An older woman/younger man couple always looks ridiculous.
TrishM80 · 01/04/2023 07:50
The older man/younger woman dynamic isn't as ridiculous, no.
For example, a 45 y/o man with 30 y/o woman is socially acceptable, although I do grant that an age gap beyond that starts becoming a bit weird.
But a 45 y/o woman with a 30 y/o man? Even if she was 40, hell 36 or 37, it just doesn't look right! Can't really explain it, it's probably an evolutionary thing to do with women's fertility. From an evolutionary point of view, a 30 y/o man should be seeking out a woman the same age or younger with which to produce offspring, not a woman nearing or at the end of her fertile years. And even if neither party wants children, evolution has dictated that the age gap still looks odd.
But hey, if people want to do it, crack on! I'd compare it to seeing a balding middle aged man still rocking a ponytail. If it makes them happy, more power to them! But I'm still gonna think it looks ridiculous!
Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 01/04/2023 07:24
What about an older man / younger woman? Or is it just against women dating younger?
TrishM80 · 01/04/2023 06:58
No. An older woman/younger man couple always looks ridiculous.
Tulip2478 · 01/04/2023 08:17
@TrishM80
You were on another post berating a woman because she wouldn't forgive a man who lied about his age (he was older than he said), but you think this situation would look odd. You also made the predictable line of every woman wanting a man over six foot. I'm guessing you are a male poster.
There's nothing wrong with an older woman/younger man.
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