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[Lucy41]

Ive just come across some messages between my husband a friend/ex colleague of his.
This person was telling my husband he should go and visit him. My husband replies that they’ll organise a weekend and my husband can help him with the electric work in his house but he’ll need fuel for this (alcohol and viagra) to pass the time!!!!!!
My husband likes pegging and now I’m thinking all sorts. Is this banter or something more??? I feel like such an idiot given the way he’s treated me over the years. TiA for reading

Hard to tell without the background

If I seen this on my DPs phone I'd assume matey banter. But then I don't have any reason not to trust him and no doubts about his sexuality

Saying he needs viagra to see a mate ?

The viagra comment...yeah that's not a joke.
Sounds like it's a dirty conversation and the electric work is a euphemism.

Good grief!!

I think I lead a sheltered life as I had to Google pegging!! And now wish I hadn't 🤮

@Lucy41 yes it sounds dodgy as hell (last thing I’d be thinking is banter) but your last line says it all.

What on earth have you been putting up with for years?

please tell me so i dont have to google it lol

Holy shit that escalated quickly

What’s pegging?

Girl wearing a strap on dildo and having sex with the man

Mind you as it's a male friend no need for a strap on so I assume just male and male sex is what OP is worried about

So I assume it's you doing the strap on dildo op? Yes I would be very worried

Sounds like he's gay or bi.

I'd say it's more than banter, if it was a woman he was texting would you think it was banter?

So from a males perspective this is something Ii have and absolutely do say to my close mate. Normally ask each other for a reach around or talk about how it's their turn to do the respective one up the

It's all bollocks reading far too much into it

Not necessarily gay , they may both be planning on going out to find women to have sex with.