Fiancé doesn't want me to go clubbing

[Stu2920]

So I had arranged a night out with my best mate, my finance and her best friend. We were to go out for dinner and then get pissed and go clubbing. Have a good night out and a laugh basically.
My mate now can't go and my fiancé doesn't want me to go out with her and her best friend. She is having real issues with it and says it will be weird yet we are just 3 friends going out on the lash for a good laugh and I don't understand.

I could have done something else but we had arranged to go out and I wasn't just going to bail on them.

Maybe she thinks it’d be better to have a girls night as your friend isn’t coming anymore

It's weird.

Lol. "Going out on the lash" and "clubbing" reminds me of being 16 in Newquay 😂

I think I'm uninviting you is pretty rude.

I'm with your fiancé. It is weird.

Have to say that I don't like nightclubs anyway, so that probably colours part of my reaction.

Turning it from two couples to two best friends and one partner is a different dynamic. I wouldn't uninvite my DP as that's rude but I'd kind of expect him to suggest I went out without him and we rearranged the couple night for another time.

Same! I went again before Covid hit and it was exactly the same. That place never changes 😂