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Boyfriend listening to ex girlfriends songs

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Bunny706069 · 23/03/2023 12:57

When my boyfriend was showing me a song on spotify, i saw his search history and his ex girlfriends name was there (she's a singer and has a few songs on spotify) I brought it up and he lied at first saying he shares the spotify account with his sister so she must of searched her, i knew this was a lie so caught him out and then he said he was listening to a song that sounded like hers so he searched her up over curiosity. We talked about it and he said he wouldn't want to be with her and he wasn't looking her up in that way, but I still feel really upset about it and sad he lied. I know how if he does actually still love her??

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sonjadog · 23/03/2023 12:58

So he likes her music? To me you are making a big deal about nothing.

TipTopHat · 23/03/2023 12:59

My ex boyfriend is a musician, I listen to him on Spotify using my husbands account. My husband also likes his music. Listening to his music doesn't mean I want to shag him.

aSofaNearYou · 23/03/2023 13:03

Really depends on the context tbh, if there's any reason to think he still loves her. I'd be interested to hear my exes music out of sheer nosiness. I'm not carrying a torch for them, but I'd be interested to hear it.

Ducklips71 · 23/03/2023 13:09

Can you honestly say you never look up exes on social media at all, never, just out of pure curiosity, not because you're longing to be back with them? Surely this is the same, idle curiosity.

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