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Positive test - tell partner?

28 replies

Cicchetti · 22/03/2023 14:36

He doesn't have children. I have one. I don't really want another child but am not sure I can handle an abortion.

I just got a positive test. My period is only a day or two late.

Not sure if I should tell him. I'm so confused.

OP posts:
Tealsofa · 22/03/2023 20:01

Cicchetti · 22/03/2023 19:43

He immediately hugged me and asked what I want to do, then said he will fully support me in whatever choice I make

oh, really pleased to read this - now you can decide together

JustJamie5 · 22/03/2023 20:03

Aww, finally a thread with a happy ending.

I know this isn’t the ideal situation but talking to him is probably the best thing you could do for your relationship…… if I was a man and found our my partner had an abortion without letting me know she was pregnant I think I’d be quite hurt that they didn’t feel comfortable talking to me, I’d question the trust and I think that would damage the relationship quite a lot.

nowaworriedmum · 23/03/2023 10:22

@Cicchetti wow, what a diamond he is! Hold him close! 💙

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