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Aware of an affair, would you do something?

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User920202 · 21/03/2023 19:32

So myself and some colleagues are aware that 2 of our other colleagues are having an affair. One is 18 and the other is almost 30. The older one is in a relationship and has been for a long time. It makes us all uncomfortable and not sure what to do (if anything at all).

OP posts:

GandhiDeclaredWarOnYou · 22/03/2023 14:13

Talk to HR.

whsm17 · 07/10/2024 13:56

Maybe tell the HR ... if its safe for you . If not then try to move on .

DadJoke · 07/10/2024 14:02

At work, it doesn't affect your work, and you don't know their partner? Do nothing.

Swanbeauty · 07/10/2024 14:05

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Withdrawn at OP's request.

2921j2 · 07/10/2024 14:05

I have an 18yo and would be so upset to find a 30yo preying on them. Particularly a 30yo who was already in a relationship.

Inform HR anonymously with a throw away email account.

Abuse of a more powerful position?

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