Long time lurker, first time poster here - I am a married male.
I've been married to my wife for 15 years and life is good with nothing to grumble about. Over the years we have always made sure we make effort with eachother as individuals and not risk focussing just on kids. We've always been open over the years about things we want to try, both in life and in the bedroom, and we have tried most things we want to. However my wife recently told me about a fantasy she has that she wants to live out - I am keen to do it and I will be doing it but feel a bit unsure where to start.
In three weeks time we are booked for a night in a hotel not too far from home. The reason it isn't too far is because we are travelling there separately as she wants to live live out a scenario where we 'meet' for the first time as strangers in a bar nearby and see where the evening takes us. She wants to live it out with a backstory but she wants it to be completely new to her so she is giving me no hints and I want to respect that and come up with my story but the issue I have is my imagination isn't good on this stuff.
Am I Lee who is unhappily married but staying in my relationship for the sake of the kids?
Am I Dave who is single and open to anything?
Am I Chris who is 'happy' with home life but would like some fun whilst I'm away on business overnight?
I am rubbish at stuff like this but given it is her fantasy I want to live it out in the best way possible to give her the biggest thrill.
Has anyone done anything similar and have any tips? Or any suggestions?