My DP is saying that unless I borrow quite a substantial sum of money he will not move.
I do not want to borrow this and have said stay where you are then I will move on my own with teen D child.
Problem is we have different values, he is materialistic and so am not.
The problem is I am in a new job and haven't passed my probation period and it seems like the company likes to extend it and keep you feeling insecure. I haven't had a good start. The people there aren't very nice either.
I want to make the move, but I have horrible mental health issues and a disability and I just feel like I won't survive in my own. I have no one else in the world accept for my DP, DC and 1 good friend.
I feel in such a dark place and have constant anxiety and horrible thoughts.
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strawberrytarties · 19/03/2023 09:40
strawberrytarties · 19/03/2023 10:09
We have been together for many years and he is horrible with money, hence why he can't borrow the money himself.
He said if I don't do what he wants, I can just move on my own with our child.
Luckingfovely · 19/03/2023 10:12
Yup. I know you are feeling vulnerable and change and change seems hard, but your life is not going to get better until you leave this creep.
Deep breath, find your backbone, and move without him!
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strawberrytarties · 19/03/2023 10:13
I have deep insecurity that I can't survive on my own - pathetic I know, but I feel so insecure at work too.
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