He feels like a lodger in the house. I spend time parenting and he spends his time drinking. It’s horrible. I go downstairs he stays upstairs until its time for ved and we swap. He stays up drinking. He’s become a master of hiding his drinks too! Im sure he doesn’t realise i know how much hes had. That sound of another can opening but quietly does my head in. Its not nice to walk into a room and it stinks of booze. Also finding empty cans / wine glasses down the side of the bed. Im growing tired of the Bleary eyed look and stale alcohol 🤢 ive tried to discuss it with him but he avoids me, denies, says i nag him, im boring etc. i swear he has issues around alcohol (for a long time). Its just not healthy drinking
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FeelsLikeALodger · 19/03/2023 06:53
I think its very sad that all his free time (he works full time) is spent drinking. Are we really that awful to be around?
FeelsLikeALodger · 19/03/2023 06:53
I think its very sad that all his free time (he works full time) is spent drinking. Are we really that awful to be around?
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