My husband likes women weightlifters and we both do weights although I'm not ripped and in fact am trying to lose weight. During our marriage he has repeatedly downloaded pictures of ripped women and also follows some women bodybuilders on FB and Instagram. I don't know how many times we've had discussions about how this upsets me and that I feel disrespected. He's sorry,he loves me, he won't do it again. I do believe he'd never contact anyone or be looking for a relationship but it makes me feel so unattractive even though I work out with him every week. It's doing nothing for my self esteem.