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Fuckbuddy

5 replies

HelenkK · 09/03/2023 15:59

Help please

I have recently met someone on Bumble -been on a couple of Dates and it’s been ok not great but ok.

My story is that I have been single for over 10 years, 5 years ago a friend became a fuckbuddy and nothing else. This has been going on for without any issues and I have been happy, he’s happy too with no issues.

I recently saw a picture on Facebook suggesting a mutual friend we may know and he’s cosying up with this girl. Thought nothing of it and decided to date myself too but know he’s messaging as before asking me to pop over one night.

what do I do!! Sex is great with him

i haven’t asked him about this girl, should I???

So confused on what to do????

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Alstothemarvshien · 09/03/2023 17:06

Ask him because you need to weigh up the risk of std.

Zanatdy · 09/03/2023 18:06

I agree you need to ask about this girl. I guess you’re not in any relationship with the guy from bumble at this point so can do what you want but I personally wouldn’t want to be having sex with someone then going on dates with someone.

nc1013 · 09/03/2023 19:18

I think it depends how well you know the suggested friend? If she's a genuine friend I'd be speaking to her but if not if just tell him what you've seen and say it doesn't feel right to you

ThisIsNotThePostYourLookingFor · 09/03/2023 19:23

Just ask him but be ready to hear an answer you may not like. If your not exclusive then he may be doing the same with others

HelenkK · 09/03/2023 20:52

Thanks, no sexual relationship with bumble guy so haven’t been with anyone else yet. I have no feelings for fuckbuddy, it’s just sex. I will ask him I think that’s the best thing to do. Thanks guys for your advice.

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