Is there someone else

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Been married for 7 years together for 10. The relationship over the last two years has gone rapidly down hill. He works seven days a week (through choice) but more recently has started the gym and also playing a team sport twice a week.
We had a row a few days ago over his lack of help in the home ( something that has happened more frequently)and he's upped and left to stay with his mum.Now he's told me he's not happy in the relationship and it looks like we will divorce
We have a DC and this has totally come from nowhere. I'm starting to feel like there's more to it . I'm unsure where to go and what to do. Has anyone been in a similar position.

Sounds like he was unhappy and it’s anyone guess if there’s another woman.

Im so sorry you are going through this it does hurt

However time is a healer and when one door closes another always opens

such a massive shock for you but it does sound like there is someone else. Have you spoken to him now?

Suddenly going to the gym can mean he has taken an interest in his appearance, which could in turn mean it's because there is a new woman on the scene. However, you just don't know.

It could be another woman, or it could just be a distraction because he hasn't been happy for a while but has chosen not to bring it up in discussion.

How awful that he has blindsided you like this though.

All you can do is talk to him and see if you can get to the bottom of where it is all stemming from.