Follow on from my thread "I have made him Paranoid"
After having had numerous texts over the weekend, he has now said that the reason for not talking to me about the issues he had about our relationship & he first felt p*ed off 3 months ago was that
"It was his way off getting to know me & what I am like & if we could make a go of it"
I thought commuication in a relationship was about getting to know someone & working through issues. Not by keeping quiet & letting things fester?
I feel that he has lead me on for the last 3 months by not saying anything until we finished.I feel really hurt by this comment as I had always thought we had been open & honest with each other.
Advice would be welcome as it has really upset me & just dont know what to think.