DP and I have been together a while and have a DC. DP job involves him going to different locations but the same locations on a rota system. He receives a referral and then attends the location. He has a work phone a personal phone.
He has befriended someone at one of these locations. She is not a client of his but works in a similar field. I think he is at her location once or twice a month. Anyway, a while ago there was a bit of mentionitis but this has now stopped. I asked him if there was something going on but was reassured there was not. I stupidly went through his phone and they message almost every day, rarely at the weekend. Mainly silly things, day to day things about her children ect but also some flirty innuendos made by him. She is also muted on his phone. They also call each other a few times a week. Sometimes instigated by her, from looking at the messages. Some messages prior to the calls appear to be professional related some where she just wants a chat.
Am I reading to much into this? I’m not comfortable with it at all, if it’s work related surely it should all be on his work phone? Or am I just being over the top.