"Intimate" photos and videos?

[Tuilpmouse]

The fact that revenge porn is a thing shows that lots of people make porn between themselves within relationships.

Is it really that common though? I'm pretty open-minded, but have never contemplated doing such a thing, and neither have any of my partners. I don't really get the point of it...

Surely when a man asks for this (and I bet that 99 times out of 100 it is), especially if you're just bf/gf rather than committed lifelong partners/spouses, there must be a suspicion that you'll regret it massively in the months/years ahead. Yet so many people seem to do it anyway! What are they thinking?

I totally agree with you and have no idea why women agree to this. Maybe if you are apart a lot it is like home made porn, but then I am not into that either.

My bf mentioned it as a ‘joke’ a while back, largely for him to watch no doubt. He’s very into porn though so I don’t think I’d agree to it incase it made its way somewhere. He isn’t the type to do that but you can’t trust anyone 100% so it’s best not to agree to it. I can’t think of anything worse than watching myself having sex! It wouldn’t be a turn on at all

I did back in the days before the Internet. Wouldn't do it now as everything is too connected and I'm scared they'll end up somewhere they shouldn't!

I think it's horrendous, and I bet the vast majority of women who've done it have been coerced, however subtly, and don't want to lose the guy, be the cool girlfriend.

I'd never send anything like this to Stevie Wonder never mind your random guy or even husband.

In the past I've sent pics but I always left my face out so I couldn't be identified. I've never been coerced, when I was in the mood, I enjoyed sending and receiving pictures. My husband and I film ourselves having sex sometimes but we usually delete after we've enjoyed watching a few times, not because I don't trust him, but because I'm paranoid about accidentally sending them to the wrong person.