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Flaky friends

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NYLass70 · 14/02/2023 18:13

Have you got friends who prove to be flaky?
I've had a few experiences this year of friends who I just don't feel have been there for me.
I've supported them so much in the past yet when I've needed support just not been around.
Feeling very let down at the moment.
Thinking just need to now invest time in those who are willing to invest in myself.

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SideshowAuntSallly · 14/02/2023 18:32

Yes and I had enough recently and decided I come first. Its been coming for a good while, they stood me up on my birthday and didn't even tell me so I could plan something else I had to call them and even then no apology or happy birthday. Then I had man trouble and all they could say was how I don't need a man (coming from someone married). Then when I got the job of my dreams that I had worked hard to get she wasn't even happy just asked if I had applied because of a man.

I have other friends who are amazing and are there for me.

Mary46 · 14/02/2023 20:56

Yes op had a few them. Dont depend on them. I had a big birthday. I barely got a text. Im not chasing people. Thank god my other friends are good.

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