Fed up!

[Mumof2gurls]

Is anyone else just feeling like their relationship is dead ….. fed up of feeling more like his mum than his partner ….. don’t know what to do anymore

You first. What's making you feel like this and how have you tried to resolve it?

Honestly thinking this tonight. We're both working full time and I pay for a cleaner yet all child-related stuff is on me. Was told that the dinner I made tonight was "not very nice, and bland" (no salt for baby) - and he's acting the martyr tonight because I insisted he start doing our 15mo's bedtime once a week to give me a break. Just a few examples of the same shit every day. Feel very under-appreciated.

Sorry you're feeling the same OP.

Yes I’ve tried lots! I do everything … the house the kids …. Everything and any time he gets he just does what suits him which is normally gaming ….. just fed up of living such a crap life of everyone taking off me all the time and when the end of the day comes I’m way feeling like I mean nothing to anyone other than what I can do for them …..

Just leave. It’s your life make yourself happy f everyone else.
you will find someone else there is 7billion people on earth

@HelterSkelter224 honestly why do we even bother? I am same I do everything all the time!! I’m at my whits end I feel like a slave half of the time …… and I’m sick of being angry or upset and asking to talk because he doesn’t listen or care whats so ever just sees me nagging at him x

@Moobae this is very true …. Not as simple as that when you share a home and kids …. Can’t just go tomorrow 😂 although if I could I’m at the point where I think I would rather than feeling like this all the time