OK so me and my husband are seperating after a few years of things going downhill for us. Anyway he's in the military and currently away until April. We have a car on finance that we got last May which he pays each month and I put £4000 deposit on at the beginning to make the finance cheaper. We have two young children and I use the car the most currently. I'm gonna be moving closer to family with the children for support as he is always away and living near his base I don't get a lot of help currently. After I've moved who gets the car?? I'm guessing him coz he's paying the finance but I'm then out 4 grand and a car. I can't afford to buy my own because I've had to quit my job because of his unpredictable Job and I don't get help with benefits coz of his wage (which is not very high). Just don't know what the solution is as we will both need a car. Me because of the kids and him to come and visit the kids.