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Advice would be great!

2 replies

Jaydeka · 05/02/2023 17:04

Hey MN
Just wanted abit of advice.
I have always fluctuated in weight.
I would class myself as a bigger lady, I went from a 20 to a 16.i go up and down in weight. Which has ruined my skin on my tummy sadly.
I Hate my stomache area, my hubby has always preferred ladies with some weight on them, curves as he says. He says I'm beautiful whatever weight I'm at which is nice to hear I guess, but he's been honest and said he prefers me with weight on, curves.
Hes always said he would support me in whatever weight I'm comfortable at.
He notices when my boobs go up and down in size, he's a boob man which makes me feel sad when he does notice, to the point I try and put weight back on, but makes me miserable as sin, he dislikes when I'm lying flat he can feel my ribs etc. Do I put weight on to keep him happy, interested, try and embrace my body, or stay as I am, I don't want it where he doesn't find me attractive anymore. We've been together coming up to 10 years soon.

OP posts:
MaireadMcSweeney · 05/02/2023 17:05

Do not ruin your health to keep your DH happy.

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 05/02/2023 17:55

Hes always said he would support me in whatever weight I'm comfortable at.

Just keep reminding yourself of this.

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