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Am shocked... online dating for months while simultaneously crying down the phone

7 replies

justflabbergasted · 30/01/2023 21:06

About how much he loves me, misses me and regrets the end , even though I broke up with his narc ass months ago.
Now he's back , realises how much he lurves me🙄

I broke up with this loser after being let down ... again ....and he now wants to give us another go.... like he finished it up himself ??? He literally went on line dating straight away. Not a job, house, pot to piss in .....

Am I missing something here ?

I mean we are divorced and in our 40's and have been around the block!!!
I'm utterly flabbergasted.

Wtf was he or is he thinking here... that my self esteem is so low that I'd even give a nanosecond thought to rekindling the relationship ???
And he's just told me all of this ... in the interests of being honest.
Ffs ... who raises these men?

OP posts:
justflabbergasted · 30/01/2023 21:54

Beginning to wonder if anything these narc men do is shockable anymore... any thoughts.?
I'm reeling ..

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Mom2K · 30/01/2023 23:19

Ugh just block him!!! Why stay in contact and listen to this drivel at all?

justflabbergasted · 31/01/2023 09:54

And drivel it is!! I'm so insulted . Big lesson , huge !

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Summerhillsquare · 31/01/2023 10:19

Sounds like you're well shot of him. Enjoy your freedom!

WandaWonder · 31/01/2023 10:21

Why are you still interacting with him ?

Bananalanacake · 31/01/2023 11:59

Are you saying this person doesn't have a job or a home, you are well rid, don't bother talking to them on the phone.

4thonthe4th · 31/01/2023 12:00

Why are you even giving this head space? Or answering the phone to this loser? Block, move on.

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