I need someone to know I am going to have the Divorce talk with DH tonight

[RosieMolloy]

I have no idea how he is going to take it.
I think it’s best I don’t portion any blame. I walk on egg shells all of the time and he can’t hide how unhappy he is

im hoping he will be relieved and I’ve found a flat for me - only if we can afford me taking my salary out of the family pot. It’s close to home and I’m hoping we can be amicable as I can’t take our dog with me.

I sound fantastical, don’t I?

I have no one in RL to talk to or let know I’m ok
he isn’t physical so I’m not fearful of that but he is nasty and emotionally neglectful.

Well, more for him
I’m stronger now than ever before…

*out of hours haven’t called back yet
i was going to put an email together to women’s aid but I don’t want to flood a service

ie I should stick with the hospital team for now*

Contact Women’s Aid, don’t worry about flooding the service, they’re there to help and they will offer a different kind of support than your mental health team. You’re going to need strong support to move forward from here and it’s literally their job to provide that. They may take a while to get back to you, so anticipate that and don’t worry, but do contact them.

Sounds like you're made some brilliant first steps.