When people say you'll come out stronger after a breakup, how long does this actually take?

[Onmyownagain1]

I'm almost 2 years out of an almost 5 year relationship. I'm definitely getting there but not quite there yet. I'm stronger, no longer cry but I was hurt at the end and that hurt, although lessening, has not quite gone.

When am I likely to feel yes, I'm completely over it?

It takes as long as it takes. Don't rush yourself. It's different for everyone.