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New Fab & Glam (Part 3 - The Quest Continues!)

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Paddlechick666 · 05/02/2008 10:18

Here we go ladies!

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TimeForMe · 29/02/2008 11:54

Hello Ladies

I just poppped in to say 'Hi' and, as a lot of you don't post over the weekend I am wishing you all a lovely Mother's Day

And remember, none of us need a DH or a DP to make us feel good on MD. We know we are good mummies, with or without them!

Lots of love xxx

Baffy · 29/02/2008 12:07

Hello

Am mad busy in work today (bloody work!) but I'll try to catch up later.

H and I had massive bust up last night following me declining his invitation for Sunday. He wasn't happy!

Have also found out that OW has a job as an exotic dancer in town!!! Apparently she was seen there one night this week by sister's mates. There was also an 'older guy' waiting for her all night and they left together.
I swear if I find out that was H I will chop his balls off!
Lets place bets though... the likelihood is it was him isn't it.
No point asking, he'd deny it anyway.

Arghhhh!

Roll on Friday night!!!

TimeForMe · 29/02/2008 12:15

Big balls or small balls? Trying to assess freezer space?

You make me laugh. I know I shouldn't but I so love to hear you 'talking' like this. You have Graduated, with Honours!!

So bloody what if GW is angry at you declining his offer. We Teabags are proud of you! He is just pissed off because he hasn't got you running like a little puppy dog when he clicks his fingers. What a tosser!!

Just ignore him. Tell him to save the money he was going to spend on you to shove down SG's pants after she has finished her 'exotic dance'.

Baffy · 29/02/2008 12:29

lol TFM I think I will tell him that!

What a complete and utter tosser! To lose me! And miss out on seeing major parts of his gorgeous son growing up. All for that slapper!

Ooh how he's going to suffer!

Baffy · 29/02/2008 12:31

ooh missed the first bit... medium sized balls!!

used to think 'big'... have since learnt what 'big' really means!!

TimeForMe · 29/02/2008 12:37

PMSL!!

Baffy, if you ever are to take him back, before you even contemplate even peeping at his medium sized balls, you will have to send him for complete fumigation, irrigation and any other kind of 'ation' you can think of! The dirty boy!

At one time you would have been crying over all this. I love that you now get angry and then laugh!

You are amazing!!! AND you deserve BIG BALLS!!

macdoodle · 29/02/2008 13:05

Busy and anxious afraid
Baffy what a twat I don't even ask anymore - would have no idea whether he was telling truth or not (don't think he would either)...and when someone tells me a "rumour" just shrug my shoulders and say "don't care" find the more I say it the less I do in fact care
AM going to "play" at families on Sunday - lunch with H and my 2 girls - H didn't want IL's to come...not looking forward to it Will be strained and comments about my "diet" no doubt!!!!!

TimeForMe · 29/02/2008 13:58

Stay strong MacD. I hope MD is a good one for you. You deserve it xx

Hey! How many Teabags up for a trip to a club to see an 'exotic dancer'

Baffy · 29/02/2008 14:55

PMSL TFM - yes I do deserve a big one!!

I'm glad it's turned into anger then laughter too.

Macd - I totally agree. The less you want to know, and tell yourself you don't want to know, the more you believe it.
I hope you manage to have a lovely day on Sunday. Your girls will keep you smiling

I definitely think a trip to see an exotic dancer is in order for the teabags!!!

And in terms of fumigation... I've heard of some pretty horrendous things they do to blokes for the STD tests.... ooh how I can't wait for the day when I personally escort H to the clinic!!!!!

TimeForMe · 29/02/2008 15:00

Can you imagine her face? Us lot sat at a table shouting "Ger em off for the Girls! Drop em for the Teabags!"

Oh yes, eye's watering just at thought of where they stick the cotton bud. I think thats another outing for the Teabags, don't see why you should have all the fun

Then, after STD clinic we take him straight to tatoo parlour for a willy 'warning' tattoo!!

Baffy · 29/02/2008 15:13

I think the tatoo should say

baffy warning label, may be contaminated, use at your own risk

I think all that would fit would be the first word though... ah well, having my name tatooed on his bits... that'll do!

TimeForMe · 29/02/2008 15:20

What about having your face put on there too, then every time he pops it out he will have you staring up at him. It may even have an 'effect' on his performance, and not for the better!

ginnedup · 29/02/2008 19:52

Wow that's classy Baffy, an exotic dancer! She sounds totally vile - whats wrong with the man?
MacD I hope you manage to enjoy MD. Just concentrate on the girls and try to ignore anything your H says. (Easier said than done I know)
My Mum phoned today to speak to ds1 and they are going shopping on Saturday, but I'm not allowed to ask why . They both made me cards at school as I wasn't allowed to open their book bags until they had been up to their room. I love them so much they are such little darlings.
I've just been shopping and bought loads of food that we all like that xdp didn't. Haven't heard a peep from him today and have plans to be out of the house for a lot of the weekend so hopefully I can avoid him when the sober morning after remorse comes on.
TFM - I'd say save a space in the freezer for my shitbag, but I don't think alcohol freezes!

macdoodle · 29/02/2008 20:05

Everyone sounds so upbeat long may it last I do get strength from you guys but must admit am dreading Sunday - mixed feelings glad he wants to be with us and not his "other family", but don't really want to spend all day with him

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Paddlechick666 · 29/02/2008 20:32

evening all

been a hectic day but rewarding too. dd had a lovely afternoon with her "special" friends. it doesn't seem real that they will all leave on Weds or that today was the the last time they will see dd for who knows how long.

tried to explain to dd and she seemed to get the concept. especially as her auntie lives in Aus. we will keep in touch via the web and i will save for a trip in 2009.

i am going to the airport on weds when i fully expect to be a wreck! they are such special special people and we have been friends for so very long.

preparation for MD is going quite well. DB actually appears to be on the ball and (dare i say it) might even be helpful! he is coming over mid arvo in order to get "nicely settled" aka pissed! Ginned, perhaps he is your ex-dp!

glad to hear your dc have been busy. i had a huge packet of "work" to bring home from pre-school "a-day" (as dd says today!) including a very interesting lump of pink clay lol

we are off to an art session in the morning so dd can make grandma a card. i am hoping this home made offering plus lunch etc will suffice as don't think i can run to much more.

having said that i had my pay review details earlier and they're not too bad altho boss didn't have bonus figures. honestly i am very about this guy. at leat it would seem i am getting a bonus which is a bonus (scuse pun) on the last 2 years.

mac, don't know what to say really. i do empathise with you wrt to the wondering what's going on elsewhere iyswim. i hope you manage to enjoy lunch etc but if you've had enough of him being around then you should articulate that. it is good that he'd rather be with you and your girls than anywhere else but if you're not comfortable with it then you shouldn't have to tolerate it either.

Baffy, i'd like to be but actually i am not. the ow is clearly a complete skank. i am glad to see how well you are handling it all. focus on yourself and ds now mate. i am feeling benevolent (sp?) so all i can feel for her is pity. what sort of life is she facing at such a young age?

anyways, i hope you all have a lovely weekend.

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Dior · 29/02/2008 23:23

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HappyWoman · 01/03/2008 08:32

Hope everyone has a good weekend - we have a very busy one planned.

Just to let you know h is not going to sink to her level - he has done some stupid things but it is just not in his nature to do that at work.

He is not sure whether the back stabbing is proffesional or personal yet - but i think either way it will reflect badly on her.

H is just shocked i think as he really did not think she would do this (in some ways he is too trusting). He is a fantastic boss to everyone and does have a lot of respect so it will be her that looks bad. I am just oping that someone notices soon and gives her a ticking off.

I think the fact that h is not rising to it is upsetting her more as h says she is 'hanging' around his area in the office more now too.

I say just give enough rope and she will hang herself.

He is still looking to get out anyway and there is no shortage of offers for him - we just have to be sure we are not jumping too soon for the wrong reasons.

I really dont think there is anything going on - h seems too upset by even the thought of her and although it could be a double bluff i dont think he is that clever,

Dior · 01/03/2008 09:53

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Paddlechick666 · 01/03/2008 17:34

i don't believe it, my brother is now behaving like h ffs.

said last night he'd be here today by 4pm. so i've got a list of jobs for him to do and help with.

at 4pm he texts to say he'd come at 7pm. i text back and say make it before 6:30 or after 8pm otherwise you will wind dd up at bedtime.

he replies "ok", FFS! which fecking one!

and he won't pick up the phone when i ring him.

and now i have to get all the spare crockery from the shed and washed in the morning rather than this afternoon.

arg arg arg!

i'd lay £50 he's late because he's been in bed all day with a hangover.

have had a lovely day with dd and am now in a foul mood.

i really don't want him here tonight now.

feel like telling him to feck off and i will dash to tesco tomorrow and hope i can get a piece of beef that won't take 6 hours to cook (he insisted on getting this bloody rib thing).

WRF is wrong with men?

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Paddlechick666 · 01/03/2008 17:45

oh and i just rang h from a number he didn't recognise having left a VM and a text for him earlier which he has ignored.

so he picks up the phone and he's all "oh no i didn't get your mesasge" and I say "you must have, i have text delivery that says you did" and he still denies it so i get pissed off with him.

and he puts the phone down on me.

feel like complete and utter shit now.

haven't felt this shit for a long long long time.

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Paddlechick666 · 01/03/2008 19:53