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Talk some sense into me - insecure

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insecure738 · 11/01/2023 17:21

I’ve been with my boyfriend a few months. He’s lovely, complimentary and can’t do enough for me.

I know this is my own issue, but I have seen girls he follows on insta (and I know we’re all partial to a bit of a stalk!). I’ve seen him like pictures, granted they are not recent so that’s not the issue.
My issue is they are all blonde, curvy, very busty girls with good glutes lol. I know for a fact that’s definitely his type (and he told me when we met he’s always gone for blondes in the past). I’ve seen pictures of his exes - all blonde, busty and a bit curvier.

I am very much brunette, very petite. Granted I have a good slim build, but petite. I am shaped a bit like an ironing board to be honest, with nothing much to work with glute/bust wise.

He reassures me how attracted to me he is, and that there’s no one else he wants.
I think I’m just struggling because I know what he usually goes for and I know I’m the complete opposite.

I know I should just remember that he’s gone for me for a reason, but it’s hard to do when I’ve seen physical evidence. I guess I just need some sense knocked into me. What do I do to get past this?

OP posts:
Mirroredlove · 11/01/2023 17:24

You have nothing to worry about, it’s not like the two types are the other end of the spectrum. Blonde or brunette is just hair colour, if his above 25 years old, I doubt he would let hair colour get in the way of him being with someone he wants to be with.
You sound great, be great!

DosCervezas · 11/01/2023 17:40

Most men are actually not fussed on shapes, sizes, hair colour whatever and most don't have a ' type '. It's simply not in men's makeup and serves no function. I don't know a single man who has an exclusive type or particular definition of what they find attractive and Im old and know plenty.

Watchkeys · 11/01/2023 18:23

Is he still following busty blondes, even though he knows you're uncomfortable?

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