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I don't know what to do?

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HoneyBees67 · 05/01/2023 17:38

So me and my partner live together and we have a 7 month old
Recently I've been trying to get back on top of all the cleaning.
I was in a mother and baby unit for awhile and when I came home nothing had been done or cleaned. So I'm now trying to do that and I'm doing a bit at a time as to not overwhelm myself. I asked my partner for help and hes basically said no because it was late, that I can understand however, he doesn't seem to do anything when we have free time to get stuff done around the house and then when I ask him he gets annoyed. It's been going on awhile now and I know he has some mental health issues but he won't seek out any help for that and honestly its all just getting to me now to the point I don't know what to do. I don't want to leave him but I also am thinking about moving out for a bit till he sorts himself out. I just need some advice. Thank you in advance

OP posts:
Squabbledee · 05/01/2023 17:44

Leave. This person is not supporting you & probably never will to the degree you need & deserve.

Dollythesheepagain · 05/01/2023 19:50

I don’t really have a lot of advice became I’ve not been in your situation…. However I do think if you need some space to think, it’s ok to get some space.

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