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18 replies

impoorly · 14/12/2022 10:18

Okay so... I've come down with a sickness bug caught from our child. I've never felt so poorly. Non stop upset tummy and sickness for the last 12 hours. My OH is off today (thankfully) but he's very moody with me. He said he's doing what he hates the most which is looking after our 8 month old baby girl. He's so moody. He was working til 12pm last night so I appreciate he's tired but i physically cannot look after our baby.
He said he might not be here by the end of the day! I mean... seriously? Just here to rant. 😩

OP posts:
ZekeZeke · 14/12/2022 10:28

I would show him the door the inconsiderate pig.

He said he's doing what he hates the most which is looking after our 8 month old baby girl

Read that over and over again. What a shit.
heshould be looking after you while you are ill and taking care of his own child is par the course when you are a parent.

Shoxfordian · 14/12/2022 10:54

Why are you even with someone like him? He’s not kind to you and he doesn’t want to be a parent

KellyJonesLeatherTrousers · 14/12/2022 11:12

Let’s hope he follows thorough in his threat to leave and you can change the locks behind him. What a bellend.

AnneLovesGilbert · 14/12/2022 11:16

Did he want a baby?

ExplodingCarrots · 14/12/2022 11:17

He can't even look after his baby whilst his wife is ill. He hates looking after his own child !? Wtf ! I hope you're planning on leaving this twat.

SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 14/12/2022 11:19

So he lied when you got married. He didn't mean he'd support you in sickness.

He is, from this post, a useless lump of a man, husband, father. You and your DD deserve someone who actually likes you!

Bananalanacake · 14/12/2022 12:02

Did he actually want a DC. Normally a loving dad would be happy to look after his baby.

frozendaisy · 14/12/2022 15:26

Tell him to fuck off and do the world a favour and get a vasectomy

RandomPerson42 · 14/12/2022 15:31

Why did you have a child with this creature?

For a normal man looking after his child would be one of the things he loves the most.

Regularsizedrudy · 14/12/2022 15:33

What he hates most is parenting his own fucking child? Where do women find these cretins. Why are you with him? Absolute cunt

Bananalanacake · 14/12/2022 18:38

Be fair, maybe she didn't realise he was a c't until it was too late.

BryceQuinlan · 14/12/2022 18:48

Why is this good enough for you and your baby?

Adelais · 14/12/2022 18:51

Wow what a horrible man. Sounds like he resents you and your baby. Hope you feel better soon.

Naunet · 14/12/2022 19:32

Jesus OP, what a horrible man. Why did he have a baby if he hates being a parent so much?

impoorly · 14/12/2022 19:50

He has a habit of not being very nice but I always feel like it's me that's in the wrong. I have felt rubbish all day. He left me with our baby and went for a 4 hour nap. I could barely move. I didn't know he was a crap dad before we had children obviously 😩

OP posts:
Thepossibility · 14/12/2022 19:54

Obviously you know this is outrageous behaviour from him.
Absolutely no reason to not want to help with the baby on your day off, even if your wife is well!
This is unforgivable.

Zanatdy · 14/12/2022 20:08

God I’ve read some stuff on here but he is disgusting

grayhairdontcare · 14/12/2022 20:11

When someone shows you who they are you should take note.

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