Sexually compatibility??

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I've been seeing my now bf for the last 5 months but I'm not starting to think we aren't sexually compatible, I'm into bdsm, where he prefers more vanilla ,also when I ask what he likes he's not sure and says it takes time, I feel like I put pressure on him telling him what I like, he sees most of it disrespectful,
Do you think this could work? He is the most kind loving person just the sex lets it down and I think sex is quite important in a relationship

I think sexually you’re incompatible. Unless he gives BDSM a go, which doesn’t sound like he’s keen it’s unlikely to work. Does he know much about it? Could you speak to him about the more gentler things I guess you’re into, see if he will give it a go and enjoy? It not maybe better to call it quits now as you’ll always be sexually frustrated and he will feel pressured and inadequate

I have tried to explain it but he says these things take time and calls me a pillow princess because I like someone to be dominate

You're incompatible and it won't get better. Seems every Dick, Tom and Harry is a Dominant Daddy these days, I'm sure you can find one of them easy enough.