Looking for opinions on what I should do some back story I have a friend from school I haven’t seen her for a couple of years but whenever I see her we get on and it is easy. Years back she had a girlfriend and I occasionally bumped into them at a local bar (this was probably seven years back) they have been split up for at least 6 or 5 years at a guess. To be honest I always thought her girlfriend wasn’t keen on me but I always thought she was attractive. My friend is in a relationship.
She has always come up on tinder over the last couple of months but I have never done anything. The other day I could see she had swiped (I had been tempted to before but never had the nerve) so I did too and matched.
Now I am unsure what to do incase she swiped by mistake and I make an idiot of myself. I not usually stuck on what to message first but if I did message I am not sure what to say. I did think it it was by mistake she could have un-matched.
I am actually meeting someone I have been chatting to for a while on Saturday so I can’t decide what to do.