Hey there, just here to get some valuable knowledge and opinions. I’ve recently been dumped after a 4 month relationship, she was 26 years older then me, I’m 32. Everything was going swimmingly until her ex fiancé decided to turn up 9 months later once he heard she’s dating again to finish off a job in the house. This is the ex fiancé who was with her for 12 years split up for another woman then got back with my ex for 9 months then dumped her on Xmas day last year for the same woman again. Now the he is back with my ex, 3 days after she finished with me, so I feel she was monkey branching with me in my relationship. Now she wants nothing to do with me never see or speak to me again is this normal. Also she has called my behaviour irrational pathetic and ridiculous when before she said to leave me alone, I spoke to her neighbour when passing by when she initiated contact and I messaged her best friend which both incensed her. I’ve also bumped into her when she was cycling it’s hard not to as I’ve got a round where she does her cycle. Have I been irrational or not I can’t quite get my head around it. Would just like some opinions please.