My wife of 15 years has admitted an affair, separated about a month ago.
She has only admitted certain details and drip fed information but only when caught out and continues to lie and gaslight.
I think I’m probably overreacting (we used condoms for birth control purposes) but I‘ve ordered a home test kit just for my own peace of mind and sanity
She’s not living here with me now so won’t see it and I’m not doing it out of spite which is what she will think if she finds out - she pops back to see kids so hopefully it will come in discreet packaging.
Now I’m worried what I will find out, I’m male and in my 40’s never done this before… how embarrassing 😳