Everything stopped

[wingliner]

My relationship no longer involves sex

I feel like we are more house mates that in a relationship

Difference is if we were housemates I could go out ....

Anyone been in same situation

Above welcome

Why can't you go out?

Why doesn't it involve sex? Has a conversation been had?

When you say 'go out' do you mean to meet someone else?

Thank you for all taking the time to reply.
When I say go out I mean, up until recently we used the fine my iPhone app and had our locations on, the more I thought about it the more I didn't like being tracked - why do I need to be?!?
Anyway, I have turned mine off. I just don't want it on. Questions have been asked to why I have turned it off and I have stated the reasons why.

By going out I don't mean to go out and have sex with other people. I just mean go out in general.

I have tried to raise the question of why is there no sex. But I get told that they are too tired, too stressed, late nights, unwell and they don't like their body.

I have tried and tried and now I have got to the point that i just don't try ....

By going out I don't mean to go out and have sex with other people. I just mean go out in general

Even in a committed and relationship where there is love/intimacy/sex it's perfectly normal to "go out in general". It's a bit worrying you think it's not

What do they say/do when you go out?

By going out I don't mean to go out and have sex with other people. I just mean go out in general

I'll ask the same question I asked yesterday then.

Why can't you go out?

Things have not improved.
Feel very much in a rut.
Going out... It seems they think of I go out it should be with them and if it's with others there are always lots of questions..

Just so confused

Are you a man in a heterosexual relationship?

@determinedtomakethiswork no ! Same sex relationship

Wow. Even criminals on probation get to roam around freely.

You do realize you won't live forever right?

Why would anyone ever agree to live like this?

WtH is your spouse going to do if you go out without your location on?

That's what I would really ask them.

It sounds like you need to go your separate ways. This is not a healthy relationship.

I agree... you don't seem happy and you're sexual missed match.

Unless your partner is will to acknowledge the problem and take steps together to remedy the problem ... then I think your relationship has come to an end.