DH had an affair a year ago with a close work colleague. It ended when I discovered them together. Since then he's continued to work with her although claims they have NC. He works over an hour from home so I have no way of knowing whether this is true. I have asked him to leave and there have been other jobs available albeit not on a permanent contract say an 18 month contract with the opportunity for renewal. He won't even consider applying. He puts the blame back on me saying that I am unreasonable for requesting this. Am I, a year on?