Is my husband gay?

[Confused571]

So I’m really looking for anyone who’s in the same position as me.
I think my husband is gay.
does anyone have any advice on how to find out if he is (I have asked him already of course).
also if anyone has been in this situation what were the signs?
its pretty lonely as I have no one to talk to about it….
signs are -
lack of interest in sex with me and previous relationships

• emotional distance
• very secretive around computer - uses incognito etc
• can’t tell me a single famous woman he fancies

just altogether strange behaviour - often out late with no explanation, lots of male friends who have no partner and have never had a girlfriend since I’ve known them (years). There’s more but I can’t think of it now

Found out the sex was an issue before me after we were married. I was so ground down by then thinking I was unattractive and being told I was the problem as I was too ‘wet ‘ or too ‘tight’ so he had to finish with his hand. sorry tmi but I obviously started to feel like a freak even though no man before had ever complained

I don’t think it actually matters whether he is gay/straight/asexual/low testosterone/cannot be arsed etc.. what matters is the he’s always been like that and always will be and you are suffering because of this.
Divorce him.

Why have you allowed him the power to make you feel like a freak? Nobody else has ever made you feel like that, so it's him who's the odd one out, not you. It's your responsibility to make sure you don't spend your time with he wrong people, and people who make you feel like a freak are one of those types.

It's time to get out.

sorry I’m late to this thread but I think my husband might be gay as well.. I am in 2 minds about it though, why go through everything together if he’s gay? I’m just so confused

Plenty of reasons. He might be confused/in denial/ashamed. Why do u think he is though?

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