This is actually quite hard to write but I've been with my partner for 2 years in April next year. It was a very quick start. Just got out of a very abusive relationship of 20 years. I fell fast and hard....
Our sex life was great, but waned after 6 months. He wouldn't ever give me a reason why and in my mind it became a very big problem. He said he'd never had a high sex drive. So I stopped making the 1st move as I was always pushed away, I tried talking and communicating as adults should but he just wouldn't talk to me about it, seemed to be shy and that's fine, everyone is different.
There are some boundaries that have been crossed on social media... commenting and following, friend requests from a LOT of other women.
I know this was a rubbish decision but as he wasn't talking to me looked like he was window shopping other women I went through his phone after seeing a text message come through at 1am from another women telling him to meet her at a hotel for the night!!!
I saw things I didn't want to see.... and on his bank statement were payments over and over to PTBNEN.COM
He said it was just a scam... but after
delving deeper I'm pretty sure it's a cam site
I've also recently discovered he has used sex chat lines whilst with me.
I know, it's bad and I AM leaving but I really want to know what these payments were for.
He's admitted to the sex chat lines
.. after I pretty much caught him red-handed but he leeps saying over and over again that its just that... only that etc.